Dating advice being ignored
Travis: There's also this other thing that's happened, where we'll get questions in which it's not clear what the gender of the person writing is, so we have to speak in they/them terms.
"Just because you love someone doesn't mean you should be in a relationship with them.Do they continue to touch you in seemingly innocent ways (like hugs, shoulder rubs or even repeatedly poking you in the arm like a sibling) when you ask for personal space?This might be a sign they don't respect your right to your own body and could try to push those boundaries to much more dangerous limits in the future.There's a lot of good relationship advice going around. Before you blindly take this advice, consider this: "What your friends think you need and want and what you're actually looking for may be very different," says Jane Greer, Ph. "Before listening to their opinions and being swayed by them, ask them about their concerns and then reflect on them for yourself.But some pieces of advice, even from well-meaning sources, should simply be ignored. Make a decision based on whether these concerns bother you or not."__2.